Yeah, once i used to know, used to challenge, used to debate with you in univ. And this time i really really lose to this debate. You won after all for quite a while. i chose and support love marriage but unbelievable you were on Arranged One, and now you chose and decided your way of life toward it, you did it and you had it now. Okay, i'd surrender. No much thing remains here much. Better don't talk about this matter, and no more talking. Time for sleep and wake up for tmr's preparations.
Once again, if have second chance or can turn back the time, i will definitely stay in, not go far away of for study...sometimes, things may come and end up differently if i choose different way of lifepath. But now nothing can do. Only wish and cheer and fight for next! This is called "trade-off" or "opportunity cost" in business and economics. You will have to accept the consequence once you decide, you cannot change or say no to it. Good experience, time to learn. Really, future is not set, no one set future or destiny for us. We choose, we decide, we walk, things will come out differently. This is called "Future"!